Finally saw...

So far the costume and cinematography is my favourite aspect of it. Definitely need to see it a few more times.

it occurred to her that in every relationship in which she had participated, in every union older than a year that she’d observed, imbalance existed. of a couple, one person invariably loved stronger than the other. it seemed a law of nature, a cruel law that led to tension and destruction. she was dismayed that a law so unfair, so miserable prevailed, but since it did, since imbalance seemed inevitable, it must be easier, healthier to be the lover who loved least.— tom robbin